Burnout and Dealing with Stress

Burnout and Dealing with Stress

Burnout and Dealing with Stress 

Burnout is a combination of emotional, mental and physical exhaustion. It differs from occasional stress in its length and persistence; if the below checklist seems to have become your new reality for the past fortnight or more, you may be experiencing burnout. 

Quick Burnout Check  

  • Constantly feeling down  

  • Getting highly irritated  

  • Getting sleep is a mission  

  • Motivation or passion is dwindling   

  • You’ve picked your bed over going out way too often  

  • You’re noticing physical symptoms such as tension headaches, chest tightness, or nausea  

  • Your emotions are out-of-whack and everything is a little overwhelming 

If you are burnt out, it’s likely that you have a lot on your plate right now, and making time to look through resources may seem like another overwhelming hurdle. Please remember that you are worth it, you deserve to make time for yourself, and sometimes, shifting your well-being to top priority is the best and most productive thing you can do for yourself.  

Whether you have or haven’t gotten to the point of burn-out yet, want to prevent it, or can feel yourself walking a fine line, we've put together a few resources for you that may help. 

Self-Check-In activities, that only take a few minutes 

What type of rest do you need most right now?  

We need much more than just sleep to replenish our energy. Have a look at the six types of rest, see which one you might be lacking the most and what you can do to encourage it.  

 

Physical Rest 

Mental Rest 

Social Rest 

Sensory Rest 

Find a quiet corner, do tiny, fast jumps, relax your limbs and shake out your body. Even 30 seconds of this can kick-start your body to feel more at ease 

 

Make time for some movement. If one hour at the gym seems overwhelming, even 10 minutes of stretching or walking outside can help. Giving yourself a little bit of time to move is better than none.  

 

Do something to intentionally separate work from rest and wind down. A walk or a long shower can do the trick.  

 

Decide on an intentional amount of time to switch off. Turn off your phone, take a piece of paper and a pen, and write down everything that’s on your mind, no filter.  

Do you have someone in your life that gives you energy? Give them a call today

On the contrary, give yourself permission to have a date with yourself, no distractions.  

 

 

Give yourself an intentional 2 hours (or more) of no screen time.  

 

See if you can spend intentional time just existing. Go to a local park or the beach, or just lie down in a quiet room. Your mind might start to rush around, you may even cry or have an emotional reaction. You don’t have to stop it, all you have to do is observe it.  

 

Emotional Rest 

Creative Rest 

 

 

Set up a date with your favourite person. Someone who accepts you and gives you energy.  

 

Write out your thoughts on paper, no filter.

If you’re feeling like the emotional labour is too much, visit UNSW Mental Health Connect to book a free, confidential mental health appointment  

Take a moment to enjoy the sunset today. If it’s raining, admire the mighty weight of the clouds.

Make something for fun or listen to music. Even 10 minutes of this can make a difference to how you feel.  

 

 

Short body-awareness scan  

Lie down somewhere comfortable where you won’t be distracted.
Close your eyes, focus on your breath and center your mind with your body.
Begin with your toes. Tense them as hard as you can, and then release them, relax them, then consciously relax them even more, and let them feel still and heavy, dragged down by the gravity of the earth.
Work your way up through every part of your body; calves, knees, thighs, buttocks, lower back, torso, chest, upper back, hands, forearms, arms, shoulders, neck, jaw, temples, head.
At the end of your scan, keep your eyes closed, let your body sink into the ground, feel the heaviness, feel the surface you are on supporting you, gravity sinking you down. Stay in this space for as long as you like, then open your eyes.

Prefer to have guidance? 

Check out the two videos below; the first is a guided meditation by a male, and the second is a guided meditation by a female 





Questions you can ask yourself to check in  

Approach this with a paper and pen, or answer them for yourself, in your mind.  

  • How am I truly feeling right now? How is my body feeling? How is my mind feeling? Why? 
  • Were there times I was too harsh on myself lately, or didn’t give myself the attention I deserve? 
  • What are some ways I can be kinder to myself today/this week?  
  • Is there something I’ve really wanted to do lately for myself that I keep putting off?  

Making Tasks less Overwhelming  

The 70% Rule  

Instead of asking yourself- can I make it 100% perfect, ask yourself whether you can make it 70% perfect.

The 2-minute rule 

Often we procrastinate because a task seems overwhelmingly complex or takes too much time. The 2 minute rule encourages us to do a simplified version of a habit, slowly increasing the effort factor over time. 

The Law of Diminishing Returns  

Have you ever kept adding more and more of something to a project, but it was not paying off as much as before? - that’s the law of diminishing returns. It’s all about letting go of extreme perfectionism and finding that sweet spot where you're getting the most out of your efforts without overdoing it. 

Helpful Resources  

Here are some things you can listen to that are backed by professionals, and teach us how to keep a balanced life, deal with stress and avoid burnout.  


Ted Talks for When You Feel Totally Burnt Out
The Happiness Lab Podcasts
Unlocking Us with Brene Brown  

Support

Feel like you need a little more guidance to get through this than a couple of mindfulness activities and effective task planning? Qualified professionals and free online counselling services exist for this very reason. It’s completely normal to access them, give it a go and see how you go, there is nothing to lose. You can pick from a list of available services below.  


UNSW Services 
Call to book an in-person appointment
UNSW Mental Health Connect: Ph: 9385 5418

UNSW Mental Health Connect After-Hours Text Line (Mon-Fri 5pm-9am and all weekend): 0485 826 595 

Free Online Counselling Help  

ReachOut.com (18-25) provides free, online chat with peer worker as well as online resources  

MindSpot.org - 18+, free online counselling service for Australian adults experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, and chronic pain.  

WayAhead Anxiety Disorders Information Line: Ph: 1300 794 992 

MindSpot Phone Clinic (Anxiety & Depression): Ph: 1800 614 434 

Headspace: Ph: 1800 650 890 

 

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